I’m beginning to love/hate the birthday party. Small is good, large gets to be a bit….overwhelming. But the kiddos love it. So, for Gabriel’s birthday this year, I pulled the ‘pregnancy card’ and opted out. Instead of a party, we promised G a day packed full of fun surprises, with just him and the 2 of us. He was reluctant, but agreed.
Gabriel is growing into such a young man. He’s really not into ‘toys’ per se, but loves doing things and building and doing ‘man stuff’. He’s been tagging along with J pretty much all summer and loves every minute of it. He’s told us several times that he’s old enough to have his own kayak now. He’s also informed me that he’s old enough to go deer hunting this fall with his BB gun, but we’ll see about that.
Friday morning he woke up to this:
His response? ‘Uh, Mom? There’s a kayak in the living room…..’. HA! We did a lot of research on this kayak, and specifically picked one that is very difficult to tip over and had good reviews for kids to maneuver. And, he really wanted red.
Let me tell you, this kayak is a beast. Or maybe the kid paddling it is. He was so speedy!
We went to a local lake and hooked him up to J’s kayak with a rope for awhile, but after a short time he’d had enough of that and we set him free!
After about 2 hrs on the water, we were hungry. We ventured over to Gabriel’s favorite place for lunch!
The waitress was so sweet and made G his own birthday crown, which he proceeded to wear for the next 2 days. The food was AMAZING as usual.
After that, it was mini golf time. We told G where we were headed, expecting him to be super excited. His response, ‘What’s that?’. UMMMMM, apparently we had failed at parenting in this area, and G had never been exposed to mini golf before. Well, today was his day.
He loved it. And J and I tied exactly, as well as got a hole in one on the same one. Go figure. I had been tolerating the heat very well, up until this, when the high was upper 90’s. I got really overheated carrying this belly around and putting a little ball around, and spent a lot of time trying to duck into the shade! Probably the best part was that I had 2 coupons so we paid $5 total for all 3 of us!
Later that evening we had family over for birthday dinner and cake. He requested enchiladas, strawberry cake with strawberry frosting, and I added a layer of strawberry jam along with the frosting in the middle layer. Perfect day!
I’m thinking this is the way to go. As much as I love throwing a grand birthday party, having the majority of the day with only one of our kids, and giving them an ‘adventure’ for a day, was super fun and enjoyable. Great memories!!!
HAPPY 7TH BIRTHDAY GABRIEL!!!!!